Dr John Wilson qualified as a counsellor in 1997 and has worked with all kinds of loss and grief for over 20 years. He has worked with many mothers, fathers and couples who have lost a child. His first son Paul died from Sudden Infant Death Syndrome in 1982, aged 14 months. John works with groups and individuals, and trains other bereavement counsellors. His book to help with loss is called The Plain Guide to Grief.